Women Can Be So Stupid

There. I said it. Really, some women just don't have a clue, like this lady. You are not upset about the adult stuff, but you are upset about the sneaking around and lying? I can not imagine in my wildest dreams why your husband wouldn't tell you he was secretly viewing porn. Instead of going at your husband like a crazed scorned woman (which is the picture I get from your description of questioning him), why don't you take 2 minutes to stop and think about why he chose to keep it a secret and why he would deny it when questioned. Perhaps he was worried about how you might react if he told you he was interested in online adult material. Maybe he thought you might want to cut his nuts off for even suggesting that he enjoys looking at porn. Judging by your reaction to this situation I would have to guess that you are a pretty controlling woman and possibly a little intimidated by porn. It sounds to me like your husband wanted some gratification and he knew he was going to get shit about it so he hid it from you. The fact that he lied and denied it obviously means there is an issue in your marriage and it sounds like you are the cause of the issue. Women are way to quick to put all the blame on the man.