Has There Been A Picture?
Has Yvonne posted a pic of her new little one? Can someone link it if she has.
posted by 2 peas in my ass @ 8:46 AM
347 comments
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347 Comments:
Suri?
is that what you are thinking?
gina
Tulip doesn't exist, yvonne is making it all up to get people to like her.
You tell me the last person who had a premmie baby who posted pictures of it when the baby was in NICU. Even if she did, you guys wouldn't believe it anyway.
Go back to reading the National Emquirer. I'm sure you can come up with your next topic there blogger.
Wouldn't her local paper have birth announcements?
Yeah umm.
Really poor taste.
With the readship of this blog, I hope to God Yvonne doesn't post a photo. I don't think I could stomach the things that would be posted about the baby.
People have visited her at the hospital and posted about it. She had a real baby. It's fact. Get over it.
She didn't post a photo of her pregnant.
So what! I have two kids and didn't post either pregnancies nor their photos. They are real. You guys are suck major wackjobs that you are skeptical of every fucking thing.
It says a lot about who you are as people.
I don't blame yvone for being private. It's her right, people!
NOw that we have links to her nasty blog, can't we use Bloglines to get the pics back?
NOw that we have links to her nasty blog, can't we use Bloglines to get the pics back?
Denelle is gloomy everyday.
Yvonne is the biggest wack job of the board. Followed by Seanna and Lauren.
Just an FYI. I am not one of the people who thinks she is lying. I saw that she had been posting, but didn't see a pic of the baby and didn't know if I was just missing it. I just wanted to see the baby if she had posted pictures. I take it now that she hasn't so move on.
Move on? Yeah right.
If you truly wanted people to move on you'd delete this post.
Yvonne spends a lot of time posting on the boards considering her baby in the hospital fighting for her life.
Can Minzy post seven more polls about her baby's name? Please?
the baby is real. she has been visited in the hospital by peas that i know IRL, and i have personally seen pictures.
nice try, though.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com
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Any guesses on how long before some holier than thou supermommy comes on and bitches about the woman who gave her kid benadryl when she flew???
Yvonne spends a lot of time posting on the boards considering her baby in the hospital fighting for her life.
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I noticed this too.
Please discuss Tammie's daycare name. While Trailer Trash Tots comes to my mind, I'm sure you guys can do better.
Anonymous said...
Yvonne spends a lot of time posting on the boards considering her baby in the hospital fighting for her life.
12:04 PM
What a nasty post.....I hope that you get all you deserve, at the very least
April is seriously wacked.
Okay total honestly here. I dislike Yvonne. She has been a horrid bitch to me.
But I have to disagree that she has been posting all that much. And it's not as though she is taking care of her baby. Right now she probably can't even hold her and has a very short window of time to visit her each day.
Like I said, Yvonne is a horrid rabid bitch and I can't stand her, but if you are going to trash her, trash her over factual information.
Since LJ came clean about her trolling, I thought it's only fair for me to finally admit that yes as many of you have suspected, it was me posting that night a couple years ago, not French teens who took over my computer. Unfortunately I had too much to drink that night and just lost it online.
I don't think anyone believed the French teens story.
What a nasty post.....I hope that you get all you deserve, at the very least
What a sweet post! You are so kind.
I don't think Fleur posted that.
Finally the truth Fleur! Thank you for coming clean.
Fleur (if it's really you) everyone already knew that. No-one was fooled at all by the story.
fleur said...
Anonymous said...
Yvonne spends a lot of time posting on the boards considering her baby in the hospital fighting for her life.
Your in idiot Fleur. I had a baby in the NICU and they asked us not to spend a lot of time in the NICU. It can agitate the babies and make their conditon worse. Plus this is a NICU we are talking about where there are very ill babies that don't need germs being brought in. And Dr's and nurses doing their jobs to keep your baby alive. They don't need you in the way.
Too bad Fleur and Lauren didn't live in the same area. They would make great drinking buds.
We don't see pictures of Yvonne's baby because she fucked around on her husband with a black man. She doesn't want peas to know.
I'm surprised such a tight ass prick like Yvonne even has sex.
Anonymous said...
Okay total honestly here. I dislike Yvonne. She has been a horrid bitch to me.
But I have to disagree that she has been posting all that much. And it's not as though she is taking care of her baby. Right now she probably can't even hold her and has a very short window of time to visit her each day.
12:39 PM
I agree. I'm sure she needs something to occupy her mind while she's away from her little girl. I don't like Yvonne but I feel very sorry for her situation. I hope her daughter is okay.
Yvonne's baby is Buddy Epsen's love child.
err Ebsen
Anonymous said...
Too bad Fleur and Lauren didn't live in the same area. They would make great drinking buds.
12:47 PM
Goodness me! is that the best that you can come up with? Why don't you sign up for school and get an education
fleur said...
Since LJ came clean about her trolling, I thought it's only fair for me to finally admit that yes as many of you have suspected, it was me posting that night a couple years ago, not French teens who took over my computer. Unfortunately I had too much to drink that night and just lost it online.
12:39 PM
Someone has really forgot to take their medication today - could it be you Chrissyann?
Goodness! if I worry you that much you must have a really sad and uninterrupted life
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I don't think anyone believed the French teens story.
12:41 PM
......and quite honestly, I don't give a rat's arse
Am I correct in thinking that posts directed to me abou Yvonne are because you think that I posted the following:-
Anonymous said...
Yvonne spends a lot of time posting on the boards considering her baby in the hospital fighting for her life.
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If you took the time to read properly you would see that THAT person anonymous posted and I DO NOT POST ANONYMOUS, I was just quoted what the anonymous poster said
Okay someone else is posting as me, stop it already!
Your in idiot Fleur.
Are you serious?
Fleur,
Seriously what is up with you? Is it mental illness or a substance abuse problem?
Maybe if you would just be honest with us, many of us would form a different opinion.
People with problems are accepted on the NBSR if they are honest. Steffie, BlueEyed Penny, Sammi and others have been honest about their struggles and have been accepted.
Why don't you?
Oh please it doesnt matter what name people use here, there's no accountability and no way to know for sure who is posting.
Not Lauren
Yea, it sucks someone can just write your name but what the hell, if no one believes its not you, does it really matter??? Hopefully people just use this for entertainment and they con't confuse it with the real world.
fleur said...
Okay someone else is posting as me, stop it already!
1:15 PM
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Okay - somebody is getting their jollies! chrissyann?
tickled pea-ink?
English people do not say "stop it already",bad language
Anonymous said...
Fleur,
Seriously what is up with you? Is it mental illness or a substance abuse problem?
Maybe if you would just be honest with us, many of us would form a different opinion.
People with problems are accepted on the NBSR if they are honest. Steffie, BlueEyed Penny, Sammi and others have been honest about their struggles and have been accepted.
Why don't you?
1:20 PM
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Are you REALLY being serious? lol..lol...lol....lol...EVEN LOUDER....lol
Fleur is the French term for old lady off her rocker.
People with problems are accepted on the NBSR if they are honest. Steffie, BlueEyed Penny, Sammi and others have been honest about their struggles and have been accepted
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Yeah, I've SEEN how well they've been accepted. Excuse me while I hold my sides from laughing so hard....
Anonymous said...
Fleur is the French term for old lady off her rocker.
2:04 PM
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NNNNOOO............you're wrong. Fleur means flower in french and a very young one too.
Why do I bother?why do I bother?
Fleur,
Seriously what is up with you? Is it mental illness or a substance abuse problem?
Maybe if you would just be honest with us, many of us would form a different opinion.
People with problems are accepted on the NBSR if they are honest. Steffie, BlueEyed Penny, Sammi and others have been honest about their struggles and have been accepted.
Why don't you?
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ITA
I thought it was fluer
who the hell still puts laminate in their kitchen? I didn't evne know people still did that.
White Trash
Who really gives a fuck who was using Fleurs computer that night.
If you don't like her now you wont like her if she admits to whatever you want her to admit to. Either way you are going to trash her.
Just let it go already.
hi Lauren!
Since LJ came clean about her trolling, I thought it's only fair for me to finally admit that yes as many of you have suspected, it was me posting that night a couple years ago, not French teens who took over my computer. Unfortunately I had too much to drink that night and just lost it online.
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LJ came clean on 2Peas. You need to go post this confession on 2Peas too. Not that anybody believed your ridiculous teenager story.
annonymous says.........
White Trash
2:39 PM
I think I saw these people at my county fair this weekend.
Anonymous said...
Since LJ came clean about her trolling, I thought it's only fair for me to finally admit that yes as many of you have suspected, it was me posting that night a couple years ago, not French teens who took over my computer. Unfortunately I had too much to drink that night and just lost it online.
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LJ came clean on 2Peas. You need to go post this confession on 2Peas too. Not that anybody believed your ridiculous teenager story.
2:48 PM
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As I said Before - I don't give a rats arse what you and your cronies think about me
When my son was in the NICU for six weeks, I hardly left his bedside...unless they were doing procedures. But that was my choice. The NICU staff actually encourages parents to go home and rest so that they can be strong when the baby comes home from the hospital. And as much as Yvonne gets on my nerves some times...I think whatever she needs to do to stay sane...then leave her be.
Do they have AA in France?
Cowards, yellow livered cowards! thats what I think about all the anonymouse peas that are so unsure of themselves that they cannot and will not post under their own names, when they attack others.
The self righteous people that post on peas about religion, 'the right way to give your life' etc.,etc.,
So, you were all raised correctly were you? I am sure that your parents tried their very, very best with you, but you know what, I bet that they are really ashamed of you now...............cowards.....in fact I would say that your parents are denying your very existance, even to God
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?
cmd=display&thread_id=1880240
That bitch Kelly is worried about the security of posting an antique passport from another country.
Jeez, of course presents are not brought to the wedding. It's all the tacky Texas and midwestern types (Cara) who say you *should* bring presents.
I hear a cuckoo clock. Does anyone else hear it?
Fleur, You sound really silly.
Do they have AA in France?
3:03 PM
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Doesn't look like it.
Cowards......yellow livered cowards
You are a disgrace to your nation
Fleur, just have a drink, it's take the edge off.
Anonymous said...
Fleur, just have a drink, it's take the edge off.
3:19 PM
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OMG! That is so funny! remind me to laugh....it's also very, very old.
You must be one of THOSE people whose parents put them on ignore.....shame
Jeez, of course presents are not brought to the wedding. It's all the tacky Texas and midwestern types (Cara) who say you *should* bring presents.
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I can't stand Cara.
Yes Fleur you do sound silly.
Anonymous said...
Yes Fleur you do sound silly.
3:27 PM
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Repeat after me if you can..."Fleur doesn't give a rat's arse and Yes! Mummy does love me ....NOT!!! "
Fleur you forgot to mention that you are busy posting on the blog.
Fleur, why do you even post here? It always ends badly for you.
You'd think Melani would be happy to finally have her kids. Looks like she doesn't have it in her to actually raise her own kids. She has to drink it off.
Anonymous said...
Fleur you forgot to mention that you are busy posting on the blog.
3:34 PM
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How remiss of me! Thank you so much for your reminder. I have now made amends...thank you
Anonymous said...
Fleur, why do you even post here? It always ends badly for you.
3:39 PM
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....and I will say again "I don't give a rat's arse" - thank you for being considerate though
For a hand slapper, Melani can't stop bad mouthing about other people. Look at her criticizing people like Yvonne having a baby late in life.
all these etiquette threads just highlight how many hicks are on the board.
sharla has way too much time on her hands.
Fleur, why don't you do what the French do best and just surrender?
why doesn't everyone just ignore fleur? that topic is so boring.
Anonymous said...
why doesn't everyone just ignore fleur? that topic is so boring.
3:56 PM
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Dahling! I have never been boring in my life
there are sure a lot of pouters on the board.
Anonymous said...
Fleur, why don't you do what the French do best and just surrender?
3:55 PM
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I have never been French, so I wouldn't know...English through and through that's me ducky!!
fleur how old are you?
ewww, the sagging skin thread is gross.
How do you get so overweight in the first place? seriousy ick. Get some self control. Lay off the french fries.
Anonymous said...
fleur how old are you?
4:03 PM
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Okay! I know that I will regret this, but why do you ask?
Just curious that's all. I would guess you are in your 50s.
Anonymous said...
Just curious that's all. I would guess you are in your 50s.
4:10 PM
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Early fifties, you are correct
Seriously. All you fatties need to lay off the diritos ;)
I've seen a picture of Yvonne's baby. She has emailed it to some people.
Fleur why do you do this? You remind me of the aunt in Great Expectations.
Nuts and she thinks everyone else is nuts.
a lot of women in their 50s kind of go crazy. I think it has to do with menopause. A lot of women just get really wacky in one way or another.
Anonymous said...
Fleur why do you do this? You remind me of the aunt in Great Expectations.
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Why, thank you very much. Great Expectations - a fabulous story....I am honoured
Something's wrong with Melanie. What kind of mother doesn't have custody of her kids.
Anonymous said...
a lot of women in their 50s kind of go crazy. I think it has to do with menopause. A lot of women just get really wacky in one way or another.
4:41 PM
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You see, the difference between me and other women of my age (50's), I have been 'wacky' all of my life.......and you know what - it's great
yeah, why doesn't she have custody?
Psycho girl fleur took it over to the nsbr.
Something's wrong with Melanie. What kind of mother doesn't have custody of her kids.
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It had to do with mental health issues.
Anonymous said...
Psycho girl fleur took it over to the nsbr.
4:51 PM
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"Psycho Girl! Psycho Girl!! how dare you, I m hurt .....I am not a girl...I am too old ........I am a woman, but let me think - if you really want to call me a girl - you can!!!
that lipstick swap has got to be the stupidest idea ever. Who the hell wants nasty old lipsticks from someone else? chances that you'd actually wear it....next to zero.
Something's wrong with Melanie. What kind of mother doesn't have custody of her kids.
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It had to do with mental health issues.
guess that explains why she can be a total SNOT sometimes for no good reason
Something's wrong with Melanie. What kind of mother doesn't have custody of her kids.
4:47 PM
I always got the impression her ex-DH was a real tool and that he just steam rolled her with his attitude and money. She has never said so but I get the impression her previous marriage was abusive and whatever her "mental" problems may be they were rooted in a bad marriage. She seems like a gal who at one time had really low self esteem but is slowly building more.
Something's wrong with Melanie. What kind of mother doesn't have custody of her kids.
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It had to do with mental health issues.
I didn't know that. I thought she said it was cuz her ex had more money than her
Here's an idea for the name of Supermom's new day care:
"Please drop your kid off here so I can have some more stupid mindless boring stuff to post about at Two Peas. All day long."
I don't think we should be discussing anyone's custody issues.
And THIS sort of response:
Sorry that you had to deal with that is WAY more annoying than anything having to do with lipstick.
I see it ALL the time. "sorry you had to deal with that" "sorry you had to deal with that" waaaaaaahhhhhhh!
what's wrong with sorry you had to deal with that?
Something's wrong with Melanie. What kind of mother doesn't have custody of her kids.
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It had to do with mental health issues.
I didn't know that. I thought she said it was cuz her ex had more money than her
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I think it's because she is mean and hateful. I imagine that she's like that witch from Hansel and Gretel.
it sounds lame
it's annoying
it is WAY overused
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Sass's take on homosexuality:
Can I just woo woo where is my beloved train conductor?
Regarding this: "Yes I know some religious people have lots of problems with it but who are they to judge anyway?"
I take offense at this. I am religious and I do not believe homosexuality is OK. It does not mean I am "judging" someone. I would never profess to tell someone they are wrong or they are going to hell etc. The bible says it's a sin so therefore I believe it's a sin. But I also believe lying is a sin (which I have done and will do again), cursing is a sin (which I have done and will do again). Just because I don't agree with it does not mean I am judging a person.
ETA: One of my very best friends from high school is gay with a significant other and two kids. I still love her and we are still friends. I don't agree with her lifestyle but I bet she doesn't agree with everyone I have done in my life either. I have never told her I don't agree, it is NOT my place.
Funniest part of Sass's speech:
I would never profess to tell someone they are wrong or they are going to hell etc. The bible says it's a sin so therefore I believe it's a sin.
"I thought she said it was cuz her ex had more money than her"
Yeah, well wouldn't she love for you to believe that? Have you seen her? She was wrapped up in drugs and mental illness.
And she chose to move to Maine from Texas, away from her children. I'm so sick of hearing her boo-hooing about how hard it is not to be a custodial mom. Her kids are so much better off without their unstable, tatted up, rude mother. And now she's bitching about their **real** parents having another baby? Please, at least they are stable.
Money my ass.
Oh my god, you guys can be so stupid, I swear.
I'm going to her baby shower this weekend... idiots.
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Thanks for sharing Cherry! Like we care! Have fun at the mexican baby shower.
The bible says it's a sin so therefore I believe it's a sin.
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Read the New Testament lately? We are to love everyone. We all are sinners. Don't judge.
The bible says it's a sin so therefore I believe it's a sin.
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Read the New Testament lately? We are to love everyone. We all are sinners. Don't judge.
I know you moron! I said that it was funny coming from Sass.
Plus, the Old Testament tells us to sacrafice animals and leave them at the altar for God. Do you see anyone doing that anymore? NO because Jesus died for our sins and we're forgiven. So don't hate homos.
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Cherry, I'm not the one who questioned whether Yvonne really had a baby. I know it's confusing, but there are lots of different people posting anon.
Now go relax and drink some Horchata.
I said that it was funny coming from Sass.
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I know, I agree with you.
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Hey dumbfuck Melani basher. This is the PEAS board. If you want to bash posts on ADC start an ADC blog.
And she chose to move to Maine from Texas, away from her children. I'm so sick of hearing her boo-hooing about how hard it is not to be a custodial mom. Her kids are so much better off without their unstable, tatted up, rude mother. And now she's bitching about their **real** parents having another baby? Please, at least they are stable.
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Melani's new husband is in the service and got transferred to Maine. She did not have a choice about the move to Maine. She flies back to Texas every single month to see her kids. I don't know too many non custodial parents who would do that.
Melanis ex had more money than her. He moved the kids out of state against a court order. I've seen several awesome moms get steamrolled by the system because their ex's had more money or a better lawyer.
Fighting kids are annoying, I don't care who you are.
Why are you guys posting anon, anyway?
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So you cliquey Peas don't flame me to death for speaking my mind on 2Peas. I don't have the time or energy to post 24/7 to become a "regular" pea. This way I can say what I want.
The regualr peas can say what they want but not the peas who have lives to lead and only post once in awhile.
Cinco de a-hole. That's pretty funny.
Hey dumbfuck Melani basher. This is the PEAS board. If you want to bash posts on ADC start an ADC blog.
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Hey fucktard. Melani posts on both boards because she has no life. Keep up.
Something's wrong with Melanie. What kind of mother doesn't have custody of her kids.
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It had to do with mental health issues.
guess that explains why she can be a total SNOT sometimes for no good reason
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PIMP!
Melani didn't have to move to Maine. She could have moved to Oklahoma to see her kids every weekend and fly to Maine every month to visit with her husband. She chose sex over her kids.
Melani flies out to visit her kids every month? Shit my ex wont even call his daughter once a year. He's supposed to see her every other weekend, and lives one town over.
I think she only has visitation once a month, and her ex is a big enough of a dickhead that he would not let her see them on a weekend that wasn't hers. Nice try though.
Guess who pays for Melani's flights to TX? Yep, her ex.
She didn't have to move to Maine, she chose her new husband over her children. What does she do all day anyway? Her husband is never around and she doesn't work.
I don't follow her on ADC.
"So you cliquey Peas don't flame me to death for speaking my mind on 2Peas."
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On a message board? You're afraid of being "flamed to death" on a message board? By people you consider to have no lives and are cliquey?
Wow.
Ok, carry on then.
Way to make things about you Sami. How's your secretive divorce going?
I'm somewhat unclear if Melani lost her children because of lifestyle/drugs or mental illness, but it was not because her ex had some amazing lawyer that could just fabricate facts out of thin air. Mothers don't lose their children on a whim like men do. The burden of proof is much higher.
I think she only has visitation once a month, and her ex is a big enough of a dickhead that he would not let her see them on a weekend that wasn't hers. Nice try though.
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Hi Melani!
" Guess who pays for Melani's flights to TX? Yep, her ex.
She didn't have to move to Maine, she chose her new husband over her children. What does she do all day anyway? Her husband is never around and she doesn't work."
1. Wrong. Her ex doesn't pay for her flights.
2. She didn't CHOOSE to move to Maine, it's called the military.
3. She has a job.
Again, nice try.
"Guess who pays for Melani's flights to TX? Yep, her ex."
No she flies to TX for work. Her job is still in TX and she works from home.
You're right. Melani should have stayed celibate until her kids were grown. (eye roll) Who thinks like that?
And yes, she does work. You obviously don't know everything you think you do.
Anymore rumors you want to perpetuate?
2. She didn't CHOOSE to move to Maine, it's called the military.
Melani is not in the military, her husband is. She could CHOOSE to live in the same town as her kids if they were important to her.
"You're right. Melani should have stayed celibate until her kids were grown. (eye roll) Who thinks like that? "
No one said she should stay celibate, just that she values her 2nd husband over her kids.
Melani is a sad sad person. She bores the board with stories about her toenails and how we should all feel sorry for her because she didn't want to pay for a good lawyer to get her kids. Shoot I'd take out a loan from the bank if I had to. My kids are the most important thing in my life.
"Melani is not in the military, her husband is. She could CHOOSE to live in the same town as her kids if they were important to her."
What part of this don't you understand. She gets to see her kids one weekend a month. She is there for that weekend every single month. He will not let her see them any more than that.
Her children deserve to have a mom that is happy and not beaten down. She's doing her best to be a happy person and not be bitter, and I think being with her husband is the best thing for her.
Wait who's Melani?
Her children deserve to have a mom that is happy and not beaten down. She's doing her best to be a happy person and not be bitter
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Hard to tell from her posts on the boards.
Sailorslady
No she flies to TX for work. Her job is still in TX and she works from home.
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Melani works? How can that be since she's on three different messageboards all day long? Shit, I'm a SAHM to school aged kids and I only have time to post about 1-2 hours a day at the most.
"Melani works? How can that be since she's on three different messageboards all day long? Shit, I'm a SAHM to school aged kids and I only have time to post about 1-2 hours a day at the most."
LMAO She's a class act bitch, that's for sure.
"Melani works? How can that be since she's on three different messageboards all day long? Shit, I'm a SAHM to school aged kids and I only have time to post about 1-2 hours a day at the most."
She has breaks and time off just like anyone else. This flamefest is just stupid.
Maybe you should look up the facts before you post lies about someone. Cant you find someone better to pick on?
The facts
Melani likes to play the victim. Who knows if she's really telling us the whole story.
Here is Melanis post:
I think , no wait. I KNOW it's really easy to sit back and judge a noncustodial parent when you've never been there.
My ex is the custodial parent. He moved the kids away from me. He worked it so that I get ONE weekend a month with them, alternating Thanksgiving and Christmas, every spring break and 6 weeks in the summer.
I travel 24 hours (12 hours each way) every month to spend 48 hours with my kids.
I call my kids every day. They (the ex) don't answer the phone when I call. The kids are allowed to call me back one or two times a week.
I mail them letters several times a week. The children get one a week of the letters I send.
And no, I will not explain or in any way justify my situation. I don't have to. It's the way things are and I'm doing the absolute best I can with the cards I'm dealt.
I have two choices every day when I wake up in my home without my children - I can live my life to the fullest and be a happy, well adjusted person, so that when I DO see them, we can all enjoy each other, or I can be bitter and angry and let that anger color everything I say and do, and ultimately my interactions with them.
I choose not to be angry and bitter.
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Wow Melani went off on not2peased, totally uncalled for. This is why I don't believe she is telling us the truth. No judge would only allow 48 hours of visitation a month, unles there was something seriously wrong with the mother. She can play victim all she wants blaming the laywer and all, but the reality of the situation is she needs to look at herself and see what she did wrong.
And you would know the real story? Where in this equation do you fit in? Are you the ex? the judge?
Who are you to judge what is and isn't the whole story?
"Wow Melani went off on not2peased, totally uncalled for. This is why I don't believe she is telling us the truth. No judge would only allow 48 hours of visitation a month, unles there was something seriously wrong with the mother. She can play victim all she wants blaming the laywer and all, but the reality of the situation is she needs to look at herself and see what she did wrong."
Not true at all. Get your facts right. My husband has the exact same visitation schedule and lives in the same town as his son. He did nothing wrong in the marriage or with his child, it was what the mediator thought was best. But hell with the facts, you can just make up whatever you want here.
" No judge would only allow 48 hours of visitation a month, unles there was something seriously wrong with the mother."
Thank you for proving Melanis point in that post, that people automatically judge her and say she's less of a mom. People like you are the reason why she's so defensive.
If Melani wants compassion from the board, she should try acting like a nice person and not pushing her bitterness about life onto us.
Not true at all. Get your facts right. My husband has the exact same visitation schedule and lives in the same town as his son. He did nothing wrong in the marriage or with his child, it was what the mediator thought was best. But hell with the facts, you can just make up whatever you want here.
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Why would you keep the (good) father of your child from seeing him? What a horrible mother you are.
Not true at all. Get your facts right. My husband has the exact same visitation schedule and lives in the same town as his son. He did nothing wrong in the marriage or with his child, it was what the mediator thought was best. But hell with the facts, you can just make up whatever you want here.
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There is obviously a reason the mediator thought this was best.
"Why would you keep the (good) father of your child from seeing him? What a horrible mother you are."
WTF??? Are you too stupid too read and understand? I had NO say in the whole thing because I am the step mother. Every couple in my state goes to a court appointed mediator and this is what the mediator decided.
Damn you are stupid.
Why did the father get the kids?
How long will it be before that bitch Kelli comes over here and has a hissy fit? She's the only other mother on 2peas besides Melanie that is a non custodial parent. Kelli is even more defensive than Melanie. Bitchier too.
Kelli had an affair with another man and ran off with him. She created a whole new family with her new husband.
Are you all really such stupid idiots to think you have to do something wrong to get only 48 hours visitation each month?
The reason why visitation is usually this limited is because of the parents fighting with each other, not because one or the other has done something wrong.
The court steps in on the side of the children and lessens the amount of times the parents have to see each other by limiting one of the parent's visitation so the children don't see the parents fighting.
Sheesh grow up and learn something factual about divorce and custody.
WTF??? Are you too stupid too read and understand? I had NO say in the whole thing because I am the step mother. Every couple in my state goes to a court appointed mediator and this is what the mediator decided.
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No you're too stupid to realize you could have fought the mediator.
There's several non custodial moms on 2 peas. Just because the mom doesn't have custody doesn't mean they are a bad mom, and just because a dad doesn't have custody doesn't mean they are a bad dad.
I know someone IRL who was a sahm married to a dentist. He decided he didn't want to be married and sued for divorce, and now has primary custody. She's a great mom, he just had a great lawyer and a lot of money.
"No you're too stupid to realize you could have fought the mediator."
Orly? What planet do you live on? I work for the courts and the mediator has the last say.
"No you're too stupid to realize you could have fought the mediator."
The judge in this state always goes with the decision of the mediator, and I was not allowed into the mediation session, as I am the step parent.
We don't like it but we do the best we can to make sure that the visits are always happy positive experiences.
In the long run you hit a point where it's best for the children to stop fighting and be positive. We could continue to fight, or we could just accept the fact that the mediator thought this was best.
You need to get past the belief that visitation is a reward for parenting. There's so much more that goes into the decision.
The kids sound better off with their dad.
The reason why visitation is usually this limited is because of the parents fighting with each other, not because one or the other has done something wrong.
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At least the courts are thinking of the children. The parents are too self-absorbed and want revenge on their ex. The kids are pawns.
The kids sound better off with their dad.
ITA
Anonymous said...
a lot of women in their 50s kind of go crazy. I think it has to do with menopause. A lot of women just get really wacky in one way or another.
Jeez, I leave for a few hours to go blueberry picking and you guys start picking on us hot flash gals.
I like the poster who the other night told me to just blame it on senility. So that's what I'm going to do...yup, I'm senile so I can say what the fuck I want to and anyone who puts me down on 2p's is making fun of a little old senile granny who doesn't know what the fuck she doing.
The kids sound better off with their dad.
I think what really matters is that she makes such an effort to see them at each visitation. Not every parent would spend that much money every month. She tries. Those kids must know their Mom loves them, and that is what matters the most.
"I think what really matters is that she makes such an effort to see them at each visitation. Not every parent would spend that much money every month. She tries. Those kids must know their Mom loves them, and that is what matters the most."
I agree. There is no doubt in her kids minds that their mother loves them very much. Going back to court would just make a couple of laywers richer and the judges rarely change the status quo.
If I was in her situation I'd be a hell of a lot more bitter. I could give the hot flash crew a run for their money.
"I think what really matters is that she makes such an effort to see them at each visitation. Not every parent would spend that much money every month. She tries. Those kids must know their Mom loves them, and that is what matters the most."
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So this Melanie lady is the one who posted on the ADC board that she was sick of her kids moaning and griping and they had just gotten there for visitation?
So this Melanie lady is the one who posted on the ADC board that she was sick of her kids moaning and griping and they had just gotten there for visitation?
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Yep. Funny she has time to post online instead of spending valuable time with the kids she rarely sees.
It's not like they are 2 or 3, they are in their tweens and I'm sure they are pretty independant. If you read her other posts at ADC she has a fun summer planned out for them.
I'm sure all of you love being around a couple of fighting tweens though.
I'm sure all of you love being around a couple of fighting tweens though.
It's right up there with having a pelvic with Dr. Hugecoldhands and talking to my ex husbands wife
That ScraPEAtacular Jodi is such a BITCH! I'm not Anne Marie fan, but dang does she think she knows everything or what? I cant' stand her!
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&thread_id=1878347&pg=4
That ScraPEAtacular Jodi is such a BITCH! I'm not Anne Marie fan, but dang does she think she knows everything or what? I cant' stand her!
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No kidding. Does Jodi even have any kids of her own?
I can't see your link for ScraPEAtacular. Why don't you learn how to post a link already.
She was talking about the thread from that wacked out bitch Anne marie.
No kidding. Does Jodi even have any kids of her own?
Nope, no kids. She just thinks she knows everything and is so high and above everyone else. She's a cunt.
Sherrie, are you Mrs. Doubtfire, the new troll? That would be too funny.
Nope, no kids. She just thinks she knows everything and is so high and above everyone else. She's a cunt.
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ITA!!
Off Topic - Blogger. You know what? It's Thrusday and I can't think of anything that would be more fun than a guest appearance on 2peas by you. As "The Blogger".
I've been reading your posts for a while and I laugh, I get pissed, but you do tell it like it appears even if it isn't what it is. So, I invite you to show up in guise. It is Thrusday after all! Grab a drink and come on over.
I don't know how to post a link. I asked once and was told to fuck off.
What's wrong with you? You can't learn how to copy and paste into the address bar and hit enter?
Sherrie, are you Mrs. Doubtfire, the new troll? That would be too funny.
Why do people think I'm a troll??? I guess I really need to wax my eyebrows. Is it this big hump on my back???
In answer to your question. The only username I have is the one I use
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&thread_id=1879765
Denelle is pathetic. Every time she posts on her thread, she adds in the title "Major Update...12th post and 23rd post"
Get a grip you freak.
http://help.blogger.com/bin/answer.py?answer=42028&query=links&topic=0&type=f
Denelle is pathetic. Every time she posts on her thread, she adds in the title "Major Update...12th post and 23rd post"
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What an idiot! Bwahahaha!
Anonymous said...
http://help.blogger.com/bin/answer.py?answer=42028&query=links&topic=0&type=f
8:57 PM
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Thanks. But you couldn't follow the directions and post a direct link? WTF?
What's wrong with you? You can't learn how to copy and paste into the address bar and hit enter?
No shit. It's not that hard, dumbass.
I swear it's the same dumb person that asks that question every time.
The only idiot that can't post a link to this blog is Anne Marie
WOW, Anne Marie is HOT! No wonder there are so many jealous haters on Two Peas. Thanks for the link!
And now Anne Marie is posting to herself, everyone trashed her looks on that blog entry, so only she would compliment herself here.
Now
THIS is a troll.
I'll bet I screw up the code
Wow Andrea Yates gained a lot of weight in prison.
Whoa! That was scary.
I don't want that bitch being the center of attention. She is so predictable, it's boring.
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