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LinkWow, could you be any more of a bitch? How many times are you going to say that you are not involved with the situation and yet you want to tell the creepy mans wife? What purpose is that going to serve? The woman is in her late 50's and they have been married for 30 or so years? And it sounds like the whole family knows what's going on so chances are she does too. Your reasons for wanting to tell the wife are not based on good intentions. You just want someone else to hurt because (boo hoo) life isn't fair. Are you sure you're 36? This all sounds a little high schoolish, don't you think?
"i am not close with them "
"i am not socially involved with this"
"i rarely even see this pregnant cousin of mine as it is"
"this side of the family is rotten and we tend to stay away"
You really need to suck it up, and if this family disgusts you so much then just avoid it all together. There is no reason to stick your nose in this just because your mad about something that you have no control over.